My husband doesn't always have the most consistent schedule. He works with VFX & Advertising which means that during those ever important deadlines times we barely see him. Last month he was working 19+ hr days and it was all a blur. I think the kids went a week without seeing him & that's ok.
When he is here he is present and tries to maximize his time with each kid which can be a challenge. Props to him for trying. He loves to take them to the museums, trails, exploring events or incorporate them into a design project. When all else fails he'll invite them for some video game time or a movie which I have become OK with.
Making plans to modify the fort loft bed.
Quality time with a loved one is awesome no matter who it is with.